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Take things to the next level

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If you are interested in taking things to the next level with a long time friends how do you do it without making the situation awkward...Do you pounce on them like a dog in heat and hope they accept the advance or maybe some alcohol LOL. How would you do it?

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soldiergrl_101 wrote: »

cwolfman13 wrote: »

TavistockToad wrote: »

soldiergrl_101 wrote: »

Ive given off all the signs that I like him

Have you said 'i like you'? boys don't often notice 'signs'

Guys aren't typically the best at reading these "signs"...direct approaches work best.

Saying "I like you" sounds lame and high school-ish maybe I should just go in for the kill. Especially because if I let him know I like him, he could misinterpret that for "I want a relationship" which is the opposite of what I want

So be direct with him. You are over complicating things. Tell him exactly what you want. A no commitment ride.

unknown

Men are dumb and don't get "signs". Actions speak louder than words. Do the barbeque sauce thing. Or something similar.

unknown

soldiergrl_101 wrote: »

Do you pounce on them like a dog in heat and hope they accept the advance or maybe some alcohol LOL. How would you do it?

^^ Do exactly this. Back in college I "slipped into friendville" with a the woman who later became my wife. It sucked!!! It is so hard to leave friendville!! We would flirt etc on the phone or chat..but in person she acted differently. Like she was timid. I was so confused and not brave enough to go for it.

I wish she would have just pounced on me like a dog...

unknown

Pouncing it is, I would try the ketchup thing as mentioned above but im pretty sure that would make me gag plah

unknown

soldiergrl_101 wrote: »

cwolfman13 wrote: »

TavistockToad wrote: »

soldiergrl_101 wrote: »

Ive given off all the signs that I like him

Have you said 'i like you'? boys don't often notice 'signs'

Guys aren't typically the best at reading these "signs"...direct approaches work best.

Saying "I like you" sounds lame and high school-ish maybe I should just go in for the kill. Especially because if I let him know I like him, he could misinterpret that for "I want a relationship" which is the opposite of what I want

You've got a lovely set of personalities...just use those.

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yopeeps025 wrote: »

soldiergrl_101 wrote: »

cwolfman13 wrote: »

TavistockToad wrote: »

soldiergrl_101 wrote: »

Ive given off all the signs that I like him

Have you said 'i like you'? boys don't often notice 'signs'

Guys aren't typically the best at reading these "signs"...direct approaches work best.

Saying "I like you" sounds lame and high school-ish maybe I should just go in for the kill. Especially because if I let him know I like him, he could misinterpret that for "I want a relationship" which is the opposite of what I want

So be direct with him. You are over complicating things. Tell him exactly what you want. A no commitment ride.

Seriously, you can use more words for clairification. If you don't want to be misinterpreted, then be clear.

But it sounds like you just want to do the pounce thing, so do that. Good luck.

unknown

wolverine66 wrote: »

yopeeps025 wrote: »

soldiergrl_101 wrote: »

cwolfman13 wrote: »

TavistockToad wrote: »

soldiergrl_101 wrote: »

Ive given off all the signs that I like him

Have you said 'i like you'? boys don't often notice 'signs'

Guys aren't typically the best at reading these "signs"...direct approaches work best.

Saying "I like you" sounds lame and high school-ish maybe I should just go in for the kill. Especially because if I let him know I like him, he could misinterpret that for "I want a relationship" which is the opposite of what I want

So be direct with him. You are over complicating things. Tell him exactly what you want. A no commitment ride.

Seriously, you can use more words for clairification. If you don't want to be misinterpreted, then be clear.

But it sounds like you just want to do the pounce thing, so do that. Good luck.

Usually its harder for men to seduce women. I wonder if I have any females friends that are like this too. For someone who said they are the aggressor they do not sound that and kind of sound timid themselves.

unknown

The pouncing thing was a joke i'm not seriously going to do that. I will talk to him

unknown

Yeah.. talk to him and tell him you need a good dickin... tell him you are giving him first dibbs.. done!

unknown

soldiergrl_101 wrote: »

The pouncing thing was a joke i'm not seriously going to do that. I will talk to him

It would really suck if he sucked in bed.

unknown

Ive been with the same guy for the past 5 years, who almost turned me lesbian....My buddy cant be that bad lol

unknown

Maybe you should try this:

Hey, I just met you (again),
And this is crazy,
But here's my body,
So fvckme, maybe!

unknown

This whole conversation just makes me laugh. Not at you soldiergrl_101 but at these replies.

Common thing here is most guys are idiots and need Braille, mail, smoke signals etc. to get the point. (Myself included)

unknown

aaronff63 wrote: »

This whole conversation just makes me laugh. Not at you soldiergrl_101 but at these replies. Common thing here is most guys are idiots and need Braille, mail, smoke signals etc. to get the point. (Myself included)

I can get the hint if the woman just starts to strip then starts to strip me. That is a good enough sign.

unknown

We may not know, but are willing to learn.

unknown

aaronff63 wrote: »

This whole conversation just makes me laugh. Not at you soldiergrl_101 but at these replies. Common thing here is most guys are idiots and need Braille, mail, smoke signals etc. to get the point. (Myself included)

Girls are too, most of the guys I know are very direct in their wants and expectations and most girls still have no clue

unknown

soldiergrl_101 wrote: »

If you are interested in taking things to the next level with a long time friends how do you do it without making the situation awkward...Do you pounce on them like a dog in heat and hope they accept the advance or maybe some alcohol LOL. How would you do it?

This:

unknown

I think it depends. I've had both. Some move faster than others.

unknown

at this snails pace id never move forward they are too shy

unknown

soldiergrl_101 wrote: »

at this snails pace id never move forward they are too shy

You mean to say that some women say they just want to be friends but in reality they want to hit it after a little while?

BREAK

This is why SOME guys will always hold out hope that one day, their woman friend will all of a sudden see them in a romantic light.