GothyFaery wrote: » I know exactly how you feel. I'm pretty much in the same boat at you. I'm fairly happy with my current weight however, feel I have more fat to lose. I go back and forth a lot about maintaining and losing. Currently I have my goals set at .5/week loss even though in my mind I say I'm maintaining. It's a very hard mental battle and I wish I knew the secret to overcome it. My advice to you would be to try maintenance for a while and see how you like it. Try a recomp instead of losing weight. It's much slower and harder to track than weight loss but will probably help you break this mental batter you're stuck in. At least that's what I try to tell myself every day. Good luck with whatever you decide!!
terar21 wrote: » GothyFaery wrote: » I know exactly how you feel. I'm pretty much in the same boat at you. I'm fairly happy with my current weight however, feel I have more fat to lose. I go back and forth a lot about maintaining and losing. Currently I have my goals set at .5/week loss even though in my mind I say I'm maintaining. It's a very hard mental battle and I wish I knew the secret to overcome it. My advice to you would be to try maintenance for a while and see how you like it. Try a recomp instead of losing weight. It's much slower and harder to track than weight loss but will probably help you break this mental batter you're stuck in. At least that's what I try to tell myself every day. Good luck with whatever you decide!! Glad to know I'm not alone! It's not a number thing or scale thing. It's purely just having fat I'd still like to lose. I keep tossing around the idea of just looking at recomp but it's so drawn out I worry id get discouraged. My initial plan was cut and bulk but I didn't account for the timeline leading to what would've been a summer bulk and that doesn't make sense. A mental break would be nice. Just hate the thought of things not being my ideal.
blossom015 wrote: » I understand completely. I don't consider myself in maintenance from a metal perspective. I'm trying not to eat at a deficit. I plan to remain aware of my eatting habits and physical activity levels. I don't want to slack off and get back into the habit of over eatting. After working toward a goal and developing new habits, it's hard to just stop tracking your progress. So, I'm shifting my focus to fitness goals such as, how many push-ups, sit-ups, dips can I do, running,etc. Goals such as this help keep me active and healthy. They also impact % of body fat.
Allelito wrote: » I'm also almost in this exact situation right now. I keep changing my mind about whether to maintain or not like every other day, and here I am still in a deficit. I think I'm gonna wait for my current TOTM bloatings to go away to see my actual weight, then estimate my TDEE from the current weigh-in data I have and then start upping my calories after that. If I up them slowly, I might just lose a little bit more so that my belly fat goes down a bit before I reach maintenance anyway. If you're unsure and if you keep going back to a deficit, then maybe you might as well just try and shred a little bit more fat until you're happy with how you look? I think you should feel certain that maintenance is something you'd like to do and that it's the right time, if you're so back and forth about it maybe you just don't really feel like it's time yet.
cwolfman13 wrote: » I don't know anyone who is 100% happy with their physique...not a single person.
dawnmcneil10 wrote: » First of all you could lose 20 more pounds and still not be happy with your stomach, thighs, arms and so on. That's each and every human being not just you. That's probably the hardest hurdle, accepting your body shape. The skin cells take a while to spring back, longer the older you are so if you're happy with your weight and clothing size I say stick with it, stop trying to lose a few more pounds and just enjoy where you are. You may find a few months from now those trouble areas aren't nearly as much trouble as you'd thought.
CatHunterFit wrote: » Hey all, I was in exactly the same situation as you. I reached my goal weight a few years ago and have managed to keep the weight off ever since. I had a number on the scales that was my goal, and I stopped eating in a deficit when I got there. Problem was, as a lot of you are finding, I was still skinny fat! So about 3 months ago I decided to hit it hard with workouts, focusing on lifting heavy to build some muscle and shift some fat and add some definition to my body. I'm eating in a slight deficit to shift the remaining fat, but have seen some newbie gains in terms of muscle. I'm really happy with the results. My body is "tighter" - I love my upper body which is really lean, and I have great arms I'm still working on my lower body, but slowly it's improving massively. My boobs are the casualty to all this though I'm finally starting to lose them. So if any of you do want to try to lose the skinny fat- lift heavy and incorporate some HiiT training. I'm hoping to do a slow bulk after the summer as I feel my lifting is going to stall and I won't be able to gain anymore muscle without eating in surplus.